tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post113035271216406002..comments2023-09-09T02:44:09.522-06:00Comments on Absolutely no exaggeration or sarcasm HERE!: Fall in love. Or fall & love. Either or.Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07108572875801619373noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130438608691985212005-10-27T12:43:00.000-06:002005-10-27T12:43:00.000-06:00I'm with Whinger and Beckibee. And also I wish yo...I'm with Whinger and Beckibee. And also I wish you weren't blue about it.KChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03662102323300280878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130433528144675552005-10-27T11:18:00.000-06:002005-10-27T11:18:00.000-06:00ok...that's scary...same situation...but my "not b...ok...that's scary...same situation...but my "not boyfriend" probably won't ever come back...Just Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05113635139982592384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130428879282436722005-10-27T10:01:00.000-06:002005-10-27T10:01:00.000-06:00I'm in a melancholy-in-fall place as well, and you...I'm in a melancholy-in-fall place as well, and your story really got to me for a variety of reasons. I know how limbo feels as well, and I know it isn't pretty. I think as much as it has been difficult, though, he did have to go through that himself without tainting your relationship with him. So try to find some comfort in the fact that he didn't take the easy way out, and that he continues to return to you. It may be painful but the sentiments seem genuine.JillWriteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05629797458851050922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130423783759104032005-10-27T08:36:00.000-06:002005-10-27T08:36:00.000-06:00i can be your boyfriend.i can be your boyfriend.Carl Spacklerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12346189642978640571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130383705476022452005-10-26T21:28:00.000-06:002005-10-26T21:28:00.000-06:00Ah, they are crossed. I agree with Marissa, ix-na...Ah, they are crossed. I agree with Marissa, ix-nay on the "Not" buddy!Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09897414542540122640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130377285697424622005-10-26T19:41:00.000-06:002005-10-26T19:41:00.000-06:00It's so great to finally know the whole story. I u...It's so great to finally know the whole story. I understand what he's going through, and I think you are amazing for letting him go at his own pace and take the time he needs, but pretty soon he needs to realize what a fabulous woman he has right in front of him, and drop the NOT before his name. He needs to just be BOYFRIEND! :)Marissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08887213841166460879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130373408649719862005-10-26T18:36:00.000-06:002005-10-26T18:36:00.000-06:00I'm still kind of mad at him for the emotional fug...I'm still kind of mad at him for the emotional fugue. But I will get over it if you allow ME enough time and you really like him. :)BBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08899974589271069561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130367033417988822005-10-26T16:50:00.000-06:002005-10-26T16:50:00.000-06:00Wow..maybe you should express your true feelings t...Wow..<BR/>maybe you should express your true feelings to him and see where he wants to take it?MEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03245346473542996727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130362236549142642005-10-26T15:30:00.000-06:002005-10-26T15:30:00.000-06:00Sigh. It pretty much sounds like he needs time. ...Sigh. It pretty much sounds like he needs time. What I worry about is how much. Because how long are you willing to wait?Whingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01764239880328666332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130362035127118352005-10-26T15:27:00.000-06:002005-10-26T15:27:00.000-06:00That was a really sweet post. And as someone who ...That was a really sweet post. And as someone who has never read your blog and an objective observer.. it does sound like he's trying to do things the hard way, but best way for them to end with a positive outcome, if that makes sense? He couldn't have pulled you through the mud with him and not tarnished your "not relationship".<BR/><BR/>I would love to check back and see how this turns out.<BR/><BR/>:) Hollihollibobollihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09620733762809711175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130357656548732802005-10-26T14:14:00.000-06:002005-10-26T14:14:00.000-06:00geez, at this point *i* practically want to date t...geez, at this point *i* practically want to date the boy... augh i hope he comes around and drops the "not." i hate hate hate that feeling of waiting for the guy to jump fully on board. fingers crossed.<BR/><BR/>god, that got me all emotional... and that is hard to do, let me assure you :-)Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15287792370490363047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130354881186553032005-10-26T13:28:00.000-06:002005-10-26T13:28:00.000-06:00Not Boyfriend needs to drop the not and get with t...Not Boyfriend needs to drop the not and get with the program!!<BR/><BR/>Fingers crossed!Kikihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01115142349477432139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1130354775087789782005-10-26T13:26:00.000-06:002005-10-26T13:26:00.000-06:00Oh Amber!! I just feel so BAD for you and wish I ...Oh Amber!! I just feel so BAD for you and wish I was in CO so I could come over (with a big bottle of flavored vodka) and make you stop thinking about things!! I know how much that sucks and how hard it is to be completely in limbo with someone you just KNOW is SOOO RIGHT. <BR/><BR/>Sadly, the problem is (which I'm sure you already know, but I'll say it again anyway) that there is nothing you can do but give Not Boyfriend time and space and hope he makes the "right" decision in the long run.<BR/><BR/>This all reminds me of a poem I actually wrote when I was all of 15 (and soooo the expert on love!) which I think I will post on my blog RIGHT NOW since for some weird reason, I have it memorized. And maybe you'll like it... not to toot my own horn, but at 15 I thought it was pretty ok... ;) And if you don't like it, just don't tell me, ok? loldasihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16455474318452074981noreply@blogger.com