tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post114725693922130036..comments2023-09-09T02:44:09.522-06:00Comments on Absolutely no exaggeration or sarcasm HERE!: She SaysAmberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07108572875801619373noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147813175753865442006-05-16T14:59:00.000-06:002006-05-16T14:59:00.000-06:00Sounds like you are in a really good place with it...Sounds like you are in a really good place with it. I'm glad! It's always hard to get there.Kelliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15195282435810486847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147584408828518172006-05-13T23:26:00.000-06:002006-05-13T23:26:00.000-06:00Letting go also means taking hold and I bet you wi...Letting go also means taking hold and I bet you will be just fine. No one can ever know "exactly" what you are feeling but you, since you are walking in your skin. But I know you have a bright future, and just stopped by to visit and say Best to You!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16539850495318868267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147570824184777272006-05-13T19:40:00.000-06:002006-05-13T19:40:00.000-06:00You are smart... finally coming to such a conclusi...You are smart... finally coming to such a conclusion is hard.Janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07021120955688879998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147463326601339982006-05-12T13:48:00.000-06:002006-05-12T13:48:00.000-06:00Gee, I thought I commented yesterday... maybe I t...Gee, I thought I commented yesterday... maybe I typed the stupid verification wrong...! Anyway, I am really proud of you for putting yourself first. It's totally ok to keep him in your life, but in a HEALTHY way. It seems you are doing just that. Yay, Amber! Now I'll go try that stupid word verification again...dasihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16455474318452074981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147444453410024222006-05-12T08:34:00.000-06:002006-05-12T08:34:00.000-06:00Oh, man, this is totally me right now.Oh, man, this is totally me right now.Aliecathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15118339330931883621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147414204008633402006-05-12T00:10:00.000-06:002006-05-12T00:10:00.000-06:00That kind of thing is always difficult to go throu...That kind of thing is always difficult to go through, but it sounds like you have dealt with it well.Jonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05379780478815310735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147396098291388602006-05-11T19:08:00.000-06:002006-05-11T19:08:00.000-06:00What an awesome post, Amber. Funny, I am sort of g...What an awesome post, Amber. Funny, I am sort of going through a similar experience with someone I could also term Not Boyfriend. Anyway, this is great. I am so glad the outcome turned out just as it was supposd to!Marissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08887213841166460879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147386566790578182006-05-11T16:29:00.000-06:002006-05-11T16:29:00.000-06:00Great post. The first few months really suck don'...Great post. The first few months really suck don't they?! Great site.<BR/><BR/>JD ;)luvwannabefree25https://www.blogger.com/profile/13861970865761629804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147370810687955042006-05-11T12:06:00.000-06:002006-05-11T12:06:00.000-06:00Wow. An amazing post. Isn't it amazing how gradu...Wow. An amazing post. Isn't it amazing how gradually realizations can come to us sometimes? I think you're right in everything you said. And ready to move on.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09897414542540122640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147362248734366692006-05-11T09:44:00.000-06:002006-05-11T09:44:00.000-06:00It's nice to get to a point where you can let go a...It's nice to get to a point where you can let go as it's one of the most freeing feelings out there.<BR/><BR/>Good for you.Whingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01764239880328666332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147360933801506212006-05-11T09:22:00.000-06:002006-05-11T09:22:00.000-06:00funny how when you're going through something emot...funny how when you're going through something emotional, practically every song lyric seems extra-potent and describes all your feelings perfectly... i might just get "ex girlfriend" out of my head now due to those howie day lyrics. <BR/><BR/>good for you for getting to where you are... i always like the moment of realization when i can take a step back and know i've moved on to a healthier/better/whatever place.Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15287792370490363047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147356652820404742006-05-11T08:10:00.000-06:002006-05-11T08:10:00.000-06:00You've captured this experience so well that I act...You've captured this experience so well that I actually leaned into the monitor while reading it, and I felt like I could see that parking lot where you were talking: it's a strong visual I can't shake from my mind. Funny how growth and change sneak up on us---when we, the children of the culture of instant gratification, realize that these things don't happen instantly, and that there is a process to moving on. I'm glad for you that these things are taking place! =)AvRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05643848894450660726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147352038088672732006-05-11T06:53:00.000-06:002006-05-11T06:53:00.000-06:00Very interesting post. It leave me with a questio...Very interesting post. It leave me with a question that you can answer if you want.<BR/><BR/>Do you think maybe that's how it's supposed to be? Maybe the person that you care about and want as an actual boyfriend, you shouldn't care about so much that you sacrifice everything, or so much, of what's important to you. That you, instead, are just good friends with them, or do you believe that there needs to be that extra level where somehow you end up sacrificing things for this other person?-Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15695248992142605013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9527130.post-1147351085349078742006-05-11T06:38:00.000-06:002006-05-11T06:38:00.000-06:00Amber, wow.........this hit home.....so close to h...Amber, wow.........<BR/><BR/>this hit home.....so close to home.<BR/><BR/>I'm living that relationship right nowKJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02082332294088560354noreply@blogger.com